Dear Help Me,
Before we start… What the hell did you sign yourself up for? And why are you ok with sharing someone else. Clearly the past two years have been pretty good so, I can’t get mad at you. But when you started the arrangement, did you ever discuss intertwining the two relationship? You have to becareful of the other woman because she’s willing to do whatever to keep her man close even if it means befriending you. My personal opinion is to let the two of them stay together and you run as far as possible. If you’re choosing to stay, maybe it’s time to set some boundaries. With some boundaries and limits it makes things a little bit easier to co-exist in 2 different relationships. My personal advice, that you can do bad all by yourself with less of a headache.
